Wonder what personality trait of yours could be your downfall? We’ve got you covered
Love is a beautiful feeling. Everyone will agree with me on the fact that falling in love is easy, sustaining and prospering that love is extremely hard. While everyone tries to conceal and overcome their flaws for the survival of their relationship, there are certain traits in each zodiac which can be detrimental for long-term relationships.
Here are the one personality trait of both the genders of each zodiac which might be causing damage to their love lives:
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
A Scorpio male offers and demands 100% loyalty and may find even the smallest of things to be defiance to that rule. While Scorpio men often make the most loving and romantic partners, who are loyal to the bone; their overly committed nature can often give birth to jealousy and over-possessiveness.
The headstrong nature of a Scorpio female often prevents her from divulging all her secrets to her partner. While she may be able to lead and handle commitments well, secrecy, in a relationship, results in a wobbly foundation upon which love is built upon.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Sagittarius men, like every other man, love their independence. For a woman that loves to have rules in a relationship, which often help to sustain a relationship, a Sagittarius partner may not be her best bet. Their constant struggle for independence, even in a relationship, can often make them, as well as their partner, agitated and bored with a relationship. The most prevalent trait of the Sagittarius zodiac is their blunt nature and “honesty is the best policy” regulation.
Just like their male counterpart, Sagittarius women are honest to the bone, which can mess up things for themselves. They can often be too intimidating with their honesty, and can even cause emotional harm as they do not like sugar coating things. Validation is not something to expect from a Sagittarius woman and that can be slightly heart wrenching.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
The most problematic thing in any relationship is ego! Unfortunately, a Capricorn male is mostly blessed with an egotistical nature which can cause serious harm to their love life, which often calls for easy going and flexibility. Their heightened sense of themselves can put off their partners.
The problem with our lovely Capricorn lady is that she is obsessed with growth and self-development. A stagnant job or a petty salary, or poor personal health, will not do her justice and she will strive more and more for betterment. This desire to grow, improve, and become independent often results in sacrificing the time which should be given to their relationship and can create a void between them and their partners.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
Aquarius men are emotionally problematic and do not want a lot of drama in their lives. Their easy-going nature prevents them from being the much-needed love escape for their partners. What’s even worse is that if too much emotional support is demanded or expected from them, they might flee.
An Aquarius woman will be in a relationship for the long run and will take nothing less than a 100% effort. Her expectations are sky high, which can be difficult to fulfill, and this can make her lose interest in her relationship. It is a “go hard or go home” type of a thing for these ladies.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
The soft and loving nature of Pisces men make them irresistible for women but their indecisive nature often results in their relationship ending in the dumps. While Pisces men make a for a good partner, their indecisive nature when it comes to choosing the “right girl” for themselves can put off many women and lose out on potential partners way before they can even get to know any of them.
A Pisces woman will constantly give away everything she has to her partner: her love, time, money, etc. She will be so invested in caring for her S/O and her relationship that she may even compromise upon herself. Lack of self-care can make their partner feel as if a Pisces woman is not conscious about herself or is too ‘clingy’ and that can do damage.
Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Aries men tend to be stubborn and rigid which can be detrimental for the sake of love. Everyone thinks dating an Aries man would be fun; to a certain extent, it is. But they usually tend to stick to their perspective and remain undeterred in arguments, so convincing them to think otherwise can be difficult in a relationship.
An Aries woman’s best gift is her energy and enthusiasm, but the same can bring about disastrous love life results. This can often result in the lovely lady making hasty decisions which can be far worse than she might have thought.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
Taurus men love showing their affection by showering their S/Os with gifts and surprises. These men have a different perspective on love and relationships. This might sound charming but gifts are the only tool they use to express their love. They do not know how to show or build love any other way and this can make their partners feel as if their partner is buying their share of love.
While Taurus women make the best of friends and have the best advice; they lack a lot in terms of commitment. Taurus women are often afraid of long-term commitment and the burden and responsibilities which come along. Even when they are in a relationship, the burden of expectations and responsibilities can push them to avoid taking them up and handling them like rational adults, which can create a lot of chaos.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Geminis need change all the time, and persistence is not their best trait.
Gemini male often loses interest in people quickly, which means they quickly end relationships too. They constantly crave change and excitement and can get bored with a relationship or a person very quickly.
Just like the Gemini Male, their female counterpart can be hard to please too. Gemini women have an unbelievably high standard when it comes to intellect and wit which they wish their potential partners would meet. If anytime in the relationship they get the vibe that their S/O is below their set standards, the relationship can be wrapped up pretty quickly.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Cancerian men are emotionally problematic thanks to their constant mood swings. Everyone loves the gullible Cancerian. However, in a relationship, the emotional fluctuations and mood swings will not benefit the Cancer male, and will just push their partner away. Anyone dating a Cancer male will find it difficult to keep up with the fluctuations in their mood and emotional needs and will lead to a big mess.
Cancerian woman is suspicious of everything. They can sense even the slightest bit of change in someone’s mood, tone, or behavior and can over analyze things to a point of destruction. Their over-sensitive nature can result in them finding out issues or concerns which might not actually be there and can annoy their partners.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
A Leo male wants all or nothing! Everyone knows what a pleasure it is to have a Leo in your life. While their energy and confidence can be motivating, there are certain traits which can push a Leo’s S/O away from them. They start relationships with the ideology of making it concrete ASAP, which often prevents their love from growing and blossoming gradually.
On the other hand, the Leo females extravagance can be annoying to their S/Os. Their obsession with maintaining their physical attributes often results in them being labeled high maintenance, which can annoy their partners.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
The compassionate and perfectionist nature of Virgos collide when they are in a relationship. For a Virgo male, he has to choose either to spend time and all of his efforts on his partner or to help others for the greater good. His constant desire to help others can make a Virgo’s partner feel bored and lonely.
Virgo Female, on the contrary, desire and demand perfection in every manner and aspect possible. While some men may use this as a push and strive for the better, many would most likely find it appalling and give up on the lovely Virgo woman.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Most of the time a Libra man cannot settle with the dedication and commitment that a relationship demands and may feel bored if their partner is not as outgoing as them, which can cause cracks in a relationship. The social butterflies are often perceived to be hard to manage but trust us, they are lovely and can make you feel like royalty in love. However, if you desire a relationship full of solitude, then dating a Libra man might not be your best bet.
A Libra woman tends to avoid arguments and discussions, which can also piss off their partners. Libras are generally non-confrontational, which is more prevalent in Libra woman. This trait can cause tension buildup within Libra woman and cause them to act passive aggressive which ultimately equates to CHAOS.
Did you find your own trait which could be damaging your love life? Let us know.
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