17 Signs You May Not Notice That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused

By Momina Mindeel | 2 Jan, 2017

Child abuse is most certainly real and exists more rampantly than we can perceive. In Pakistan, where everything related to sex and abuse is brushed under the carpet, one needs to be extra careful when it comes to kids and their eccentricities. According to Sahil’s annual ‘cruel number 2015’, “a¬†total 3,768 cases of child sexual abuse (CSA) were reported in 2015 bringing the number of abused children to¬†10 per day.” This figure was almost 7 percent more than the previous year and the number, unfortunately, keeps increasing.

Here are, therefore, all the not so obvious signs of child abuse that you might not notice or link to abuse but should be looking out for:

 

1. Zoning out, forgetfulness and not being present, mentally 

Source: YouthKiAwaz

 

2. Hitting their dolls or other toys with rulers and random stuff

Source: blog.goo.ne.jp

 

3. Apologizing excessively even for small mistakes 

These kids are mostly very well-behaved and generally liked by the people around them so they apologize more than they should when they do something even slightly wrong. This is a huge red sign.

Source: Anxiety.org

 

4. Similarly, being overly aggressive during situations that are not even serious 

Source: IBTimes

 

5. Indulging in self-harming behavior

This can include anything, from head banging to burning themselves, pulling their hair out and hitting.

Source: Express Tribune

 

6. Not wanting to go to bed and complaining about terrible nightmares 

They might not be being just another stubborn kid.

Source: Pinterest

 

7. Avoiding sitting down or sitting still for longer periods

This could be a clear indication of the fact that he or she is in pain.

Source: News Junkie Post

 

8. Preferring running around and fidgeting endlessly 

Source: LV Criminal Defense

 

9. Fearing certain basic activities like bathing, tickling, playful wrestling etc. 

Source: dung hoang illustartion

 

10.¬†Asking timidly if they “need/have to do” something for you if you act kindly to them or give them a small gift

Source: Charity World

 

11. Acting overly sexual or seductive with other kids or even the adults around them

Source: Express Tribune

 

12. Similarly, possessing knowledge of the stuff that kids of their age shouldn’t know

This can include anything from sexual acts to knowledge of drugs.

Source: Rationalist Pakistan

 

13. Drawing things that may not be considered appropriate

Keep an eye out for drawings that involve adults with mean faces, female/male genitalia, figures without any clothing etc.

Source: Times of India

 

14. Fearing certain objects including rulers, spoons, hangers etc.

Source: 4.drkhoury-montrealtherapist

 

15. Lying relentlessly about anything and everything and lying without any reason

They would even lie for things that don’t even matter

Source: April Seven

 

16. Facing troubles while making friends and not being able to open up to people in general

 

17. And most of all, having a fear of certain words/phrases like “tickling”, “wrestling”, “I have a surprise for you” etc.¬†

Source: HART

 

Observe carefully and listen to your kids intently whenever they’ve something important to tell you because abuse can lead to much more graver consequences for the rest of their adult lives.

 


Cover Image Via: ibtimes.co.uk

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