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How Rape Threats Over These Photos Of Malala Are Much More Dangerous Than Just Harmless Internet Trolling

How Rape Threats Over These Photos Of Malala Are Much More Dangerous Than Just Harmless Internet Trolling

Malala has always been a center of controversy amongst Pakistanis. For every person who adores her, there are sadly two that hate her senselessly. It appears that her home country never seems to unite and accept her, for who she is, with open arms.

 

Malala Yousafzai recently shared a picture of herself doused in vibrant colors. The 20-year-old captioned the photo: A colorful day

 

Her adorable tweet was met with vile comments and bigotry

While some people were wrongfully offended and claimed that celebrating Holi is haram, others proved to be the voice of reason and reminded everyone that Holi was in March this year and that these pictures are from a secular color throwing event.

But even if the pictures are from a Holi celebration, there is no reason to create a fuss. Many people pointed out the unconcealed double standards for gaging morality 

Via: Facebook
Via: Facebook

 

While there were many supportive messages for Malala, intolerance inundated the comments section

Some people went as far as to use threats of physical and sexual assault as an intimidation tactic.

Via: Facebook
Via: Facebook
Via: Facebook

 

The violent comments sparked a conversation about intolerance and the normalization of rape

 

Some resorted to ad hominem to defend rape

 

Although violent threats come as no surprise to us, it is hard to mar our disappointment. With the rise of technology, cyberbullying has become the most prevalent form of bullying worldwide

source: huffingtonpost.com

Keyboard warriors hide behind their screens and type incessantly wretched remarks that inadvertently scar the victim. Of late, we saw Misha Shafi receiving an outpouring of hate and abuse online when she came forward with sexual harassment claims against Ali Zafar. The contemptuous and threatening comments led Shafi to deactivate some of her social media accounts. 

 

Anyone who resides in Pakistan knows that sadly a threat received online is not a hollow intimidation tactic. Malala Yousifzai herself was shot as a consequence of her writings online

Mashal Khan was lynched by an enraged mob of educated, university going Pakistani’s after a false Facebook account by his name surfaced online- the one that he repeatedly maintained did not belong to him. In the wake of such instances, one is left questioning what good was that education when it could not instill tolerance?

Source: dailymuballigh.pk

The idea that someone’s differing opinion can trigger someone else to commit cold-blooded murder is berserk to many of us. One may ask, what makes the perpetrators of violence function in the way that they do. Are their actions a byproduct of toxic masculinity, flawed social structures, religious intolerance or is there a psychological element to this hate?

 

Instead of having conversations about a pluralistic worldview and tolerance, from a young age we teach our children that there is only a certain way to think and act and anything other than that deserves judgment and punishment.

On a macro scale, this results in a nation that lacks empathy and an inability to entertain a paradigm different from theirs. In simpler terms: It is my way or the highway. Your right to life is less important than my opinion.

It is no secret that Pakistan is grappling with the rise of intolerance and violence against women and minorities. Ample incidents of acid attacks and honor killing just within 2018 can be cited to back up these claims.

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Source: hindustantimes.com

While conversations about intolerance are usually limited to religious intolerance and extremism, the problem permeates far beyond that. Though it is true that religious intolerance always culminates in violence, there is a more dangerous day-to-day pervasive display of intolerance that plagues our society. This intolerance though does not explicitly shed blood, it creates the right medium for the birth of a graver form. Like bacteria that flourishes only in a certain optimal temperature, propagation of violence and aggression needs a similar dynamic to exist.

The daily ugly quarrels between political opponents on talk shows, the offensive inciting language used in political rallies, the mockery made out of titillating social media “stars” like Qandeel Baloch, the causal hatred reserved for anyone who dares to step outside the norm, are all the different expressions of everyday intolerance. 

 

If we want solutions, it is important to recognize that we are part of the problem

While it is easy to single out fanaticism, it is much harder to have a deep hard look in the mirror and recognize our own flaws. Perhaps you are not pulling the trigger, but when you disseminate misinformation about another individual and trivialize it as gossip, you too are part of a culture of intolerance.

May we all find the willingness and capacity to endure the existence of opinions and behavior that are not only different from us but are ones that we vehemently dislike and disagree with. Here’s to a tolerant Pakistan.

 

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