13 Intense Struggles You'll Understand Only If You're An Introvert But Also An Outgoing Person

By Astarte | 8 Nov, 2016

While most of your friends categorize themselves as either introverts or extroverts, you see yourself falling somewhere in between the two categories. People often confuse you for being an extrovert as they never seem to understand the concept of being an outgoing introvert.

Life for you is a set of contradictory characteristics but that’s how it is. Here is a list of some of the struggles that many outgoing introverts go through during the course of their convoluted life:

 

1. You don’t like when people guilt trip you into having fun forcefully when you are not feeling like it but you don’t mind having “fun” either.

Yaar, you are such a star plus ka drama.”

“Abhi kal toh bilkul theek thi apni best friend Ayesha kay sath, why do you always have to act all weird with me?”

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2. You overthink too much and zone out every now and then while people around you accuse you of being too haughty. 

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3. Once you have recharged your batteries, you can talk, dance and be hyper for days, making people believe that your shutting-down-phase is nothing but a “drama”.

Sigh!

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4. While you like being the center of attention when it comes to your friends circle, you hate when other people pester you to do things that a centerpiece is supposed to do. 

Source: Hum Network Limited

 

5. You try and avoid people whenever it is possible for you, however, whenever you run into someone, you don’t exactly mind spending time with them. 

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6. It is almost impossible for you to say no to anyone because you can’t tell people how confusing your true inner feelings are.

Source: Oriental Films

 

7. Your friends always tell you that you how outgoing, happy person you are who shouldn’t be feeling ‘down’. 

“Just focus on being the happy person that you are, stop with all the emo stuff.”

Source: Hum Network Limited

 

8. You sometimes just want to shut down and never talk to anyone about your inner feelings anymore. 

And the vicious cycle continues.

Source: Hum Network Limited

 

9. The reason you cannot say no is because the mere thought of hurting your friends and letting them down will ruin your day.

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10. Since you can’t figure out what is going to really be more shitty (going out or staying in) you end up going out with your friends. 

Source: Oriental Films

 

11. Your friends don’t get it when you sometimes want ‘me time’ and take it upon themselves to drag you out of it. 

No, thank you.

Source: 7th Sky Entertainment

 

12. You still manage to pull through all the awkward and half-hearted hangouts, one way or the other. 

Hang in there, buddy.

Source: Showcase Productions

 

13. It is very likely that you didn’t even recognize yourself as an outgoing introvert, until you read this. 

It’s alright, you’re not pagal. No one is. You’re perfect just the way you are.

Source: Sadia Jabbar Production

 

You’re Only A True Introvert If You Answer 7 Of These 10 Questions Correctly

 


Cover image via: IRK Films

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